Feeling guilty tonight
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Feeling guilty tonight
I was leading a small group of friends( 5 bikes) on a ride today. We were first at a red light in the left turning lane at a busy intersection. when the light turned green, I turned left: there was an oncoming car I really did not see, the second bike stopped, but the third bike turned left and was hit by a car just behind her leg. The car was moving fast and never even braked. She was knocked off the bike and luckily is only bruised with a few scratches. The bike( Softail Deluxe) was rideable, damage to pipes, Saddle bags, floorboard, pegs. She was shaken up but able to ride about 50 miles home.
I do believe in a group ride, every rider is responsible for their own ride and safety. But I also feel as lead I should never have put her into that position.
The rider is a woman and a dear friend to my wife and I . We have ridden thousands of miles with her and she is a very capable rider
She was cited for failure to yield.
I'm trying to get my head around my actions and make it a learning experience. I guess ill have all the knowledge and experience I need right around the time i'm no longer able to ride.
Thanks for reading.as I get this off my chest!
I do believe in a group ride, every rider is responsible for their own ride and safety. But I also feel as lead I should never have put her into that position.
The rider is a woman and a dear friend to my wife and I . We have ridden thousands of miles with her and she is a very capable rider
She was cited for failure to yield.
I'm trying to get my head around my actions and make it a learning experience. I guess ill have all the knowledge and experience I need right around the time i'm no longer able to ride.
Thanks for reading.as I get this off my chest!
#2
I'm glad your friend is relatively okay, and that this story didn't have a much worse ending.
Other people will pick apart what you did, and discuss who's at fault for doing what, and what could have been done differently, and so forth and so on. Don't get caught up in that trap. Your anguish tells me that your intentions were good and that your heart is in the right place.
Other people will pick apart what you did, and discuss who's at fault for doing what, and what could have been done differently, and so forth and so on. Don't get caught up in that trap. Your anguish tells me that your intentions were good and that your heart is in the right place.
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Situation like that, I'd lay the blame at the feet of the rider. However, it concerns me as my wife starts making motions that she's interested in riding. What if it was your significant other you were on a side by side ride. I'd feel pretty crappy for hanging her out to dry.
This ^^.
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Think about this. If you were 3rd, would you have done the same as the girl did? Most likely not. I don't care if you are a male or a female, you don't go out of formation and you cut in front of cars. (They don't give a rats) I have had the lead more times than I care to say, but it is not that often that you can get the whole group through a left handed turn. So, you go when you can, pull over and wait.