I have a 2014 Roadking and I am changing out the bars. The new bars are set up for internal wiring. I never had an issue getting the old Deutsche connectors apart, but I cannot get the new Jade connector apart. Any help would be appreciated.

 

if you haven't seen this video it's really great for helping the install go smoothly. In this video around 16:05 he disassembles the molex connector in the throttle by wire. This is the only one that I needed to take apart for my apes as well.