I've got an arlen ness, rear mount adjustable kickstand, and even at it's lowest setting, the bike is almost totally upright when I have it lowered all the way.
The Harley lowered kickstand is lower. I have the Cross Bones stand on my softail with the air ride. If your bike is nearly straight up and down just make sure the bars are turned to the left. when you park. I ran the stock stand on my bike for nearly 3 years with an air ride. Never an issue unless I tried to park with the bars straight or tuned to the right.
Dr, now i'm lost. Is the cross bones stand lower than the regular ones? I'm about to slam the *** end and lower the front 1 1/2". I've been wondering about the kickstand issue.