The fuel tanks on my `89 softail will make a noise that is RPM related when the rubber mount grommets get old, even though they look fine. It makes quite a noise.
my 89 flhs had the same thing and it was the long horizontal heat shield on the right side bottom. I know because it actually fell off while riding when the metal clamps rusted and broke loose, and immediately the noise was gone! Now the impossible task off trying to find a stock heat shield. Good luck.
Thankyou all, including beemervet and wp50. It was the heatshield jubilee clip nearest the rear pot. It seemed tight but wasn't, and needed removing and cleaning before it would grip well.
(UK jubilee clip = hose clamp USA)