With the 18's & the lwr profile tire, is the overall dia about the same as the stk 16"?
Yes, exactly the same diameter up front, and the rear 180/55/18 is a little taller than the 180/65/16. The math works out to approx .6" taller (diameter), so that only adds .3" to the ride height and I don't even notice it.
The new Road King Special comes with the same 180/55/18 out back and a 130/60/19 up front, so I was comfortable in my decision to go 18/18 based on the fact that the MoCo uses similar sizes. I just wanted a little more sidewall up front as I live in San Francisco and the city roads suck. Fortunately, we have amazing coastal roads that aren't too far from the City.
Yes I have one and yes it does handle slower but these things have so little lean angle it doesn't really matter. My boards still throw sparks at stock ride height.