Try this. Works for me every time.

 

Harleys have always had trouble finding neutral. From my ‘91 Heritage Softtail to my ‘20 TriGlide. I’ll try the video suggestion. But what I’ve often had to do when it won’t easily go into neutral from a standing stop is put it into 1st gear and turn the throttle to let the bike move forward just slightly (maybe even less than an inch), then pull in the clutch and it’s often helped me get into neutral.