RE: starter relay mapping
I would like to know that we are talking about the same relay, the larger one which fits under the battery box which the positive battery lead routes to, then the solenoid then the starter?
If so you have 2 lager posts for the positive cable and one or two smaller posts. if you are wondering about having 2 smaller posts rather than only one you are still good to go simply don't use the other post.
Not sure which one is not used the new relay I got had a note along with the part telling which post to ignore if only one wire were used.
you could simply hook up the main leads correctly and with a jumper wire or your switch wire try one if it doesn't excite the solenoid try the other.