brought the sportster home/wife not happy
#181
03-29-2007, 11:50 AM
RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
ORIGINAL: aceospades
hey what about me? i mentioned that i agree with you about 100 posts ago..believe me there is no perfect marriage, me and the wife bicker about things all the time and most of it is just the stress of everyday life(having 4 kids to raise) but we both know that we have responsibilities that need to be taken care of before anything else and that includes harleys..
ORIGINAL: bikergirl40
1of2:
Well thank you not only for the compliment but for speaking up. I was beginning to think I was alone in my theory of being happily married, or believing that women (in general) aren't the enemy.
1of2:
Well thank you not only for the compliment but for speaking up. I was beginning to think I was alone in my theory of being happily married, or believing that women (in general) aren't the enemy.
#182
03-29-2007, 11:52 AM
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RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
bikergirl40, I agree with most everything you've said. I've been married for near 33 years and have learned if both parties give over 50% it equals a pretty darned good relationship. But this does not mean over 100% harmony, just over 100% effort in trying to make 100% harmony. In a healthy relationship both partners are going to disagree, being the individuals we are. But when both are willing to compromise (theres that word) because they care more for the other's desires more than they care for their own, it can only breed something good. At least thats how it works for my babe and myself. Remember tho, no two humans think or act alike. So what works for us may be poison to someone else.
ORIGINAL: bikergirl40
1of2:
Well thank you not only for the compliment but for speaking up. I was beginning to think I was alone in my theory of being happily married, or believing that women (in general) aren't the enemy.
1of2:
Well thank you not only for the compliment but for speaking up. I was beginning to think I was alone in my theory of being happily married, or believing that women (in general) aren't the enemy.
#183
03-29-2007, 12:24 PM
#184
03-29-2007, 12:44 PM
Ultimate HDF Member
RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
There are 'opinions' on what's right from one side, and there are 'opinions' from the other side.
Guess there are two options;
Wecould "compromise" (seems that is a popular word in this thread) and agree that I am correct in my thoughts, or we could just agree to disagree.
Guess there are two options;
Wecould "compromise" (seems that is a popular word in this thread) and agree that I am correct in my thoughts, or we could just agree to disagree.
#185
03-29-2007, 01:03 PM
RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
ORIGINAL: bikergirl40
That's because we right! LOL Quit fighting it!!!!
ORIGINAL: dbleagle
There in lies the problem Dallas... They do... but then they expect you to agree... lol
Charlie D.
ORIGINAL: Dallastx
They aren't the enemy. Just think differently.
They aren't the enemy. Just think differently.
Charlie D.
maybe not all women,but all the women i am married to
#186
03-29-2007, 02:27 PM
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#188
03-29-2007, 11:38 PM
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RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
it took me 3 years to convince hubby to buy a new bike (05 road king custom) which he deserves, and after i took my msrp class, it took me about 3 minutes to convince myself i needed my 06 883r..... hubby wants to buy me a bigger bike now, for our 25th anniversary, took me about 3SECONDS to figure out the DUECE is gonna be my new baby..... hardest part, is being patient, and having to wait a few weeks, to get the $$$ squared away..... our decisions are made together, no "permission" reqired, but, we both know there's other bills that come first but, have you seen the 07 duece???? oh baby!!!! [sm=bounceybounce.gif]
#189
03-29-2007, 11:55 PM
RE: brought the sportster home/wife not happy
ORIGINAL: cHarley
I think this thread has been beat to death.
Time to kill it. [sm=icon_guiness.gif]
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I think this thread has been beat to death.
Time to kill it. [sm=icon_guiness.gif]
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