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#391
07-12-2018, 07:19 PM
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Forgot to mention one thing. Dad never wanted a "thank you" or recognition of any kind. His greatest joy was helping others anonymously. Holding true to that and with good advice from our attorney the donation was made in " honor of someone who cares". Crying now, Gotta go...…………..
Just kidding about that. You Dad is very proud of you.
#392
07-12-2018, 07:21 PM
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#394
07-27-2018, 06:41 PM
Hi All,
Seems its been raining forever in Maryland, especially on the way home from work today. Grass needs cut, and numerous other 'HONEY DO'S), lol. Just wanted you to know that even though I don't post as often as my father did, I read this thread pretty much every day. After the family donation to St. Jude Hospital, I am back to my everyday watching for someone that might need some help. A few times on my off days I have made the "rounds" of the thrift stores in the area. I was fortunate to shake the hand of three different veterans. One from World War two and two others that were vets during the Korean war. This time around, after shaking their hands and thanking them for their service, I went to the manager and gave them thirty dollars each in cash and then I left the store before the vets even got to the register. I know the managers at each store and confident that they did apply the money to their purchase and any money left over would be given to each of them. Each time I got in my truck to leave I felt an overwhelming sense of emotion. To do these things anonymously is something that sends goose bumps up my back. I sensed Dad's presence each time. Hopefully one day after I get a lot more time in on the bike, I can offer advice to new riders as well. I think of all you pretty much all the time and grateful for the wonderful replies and advice. With that being said, I wish you "warm sunny days and safe rides". God bless...……..Brian
Seems its been raining forever in Maryland, especially on the way home from work today. Grass needs cut, and numerous other 'HONEY DO'S), lol. Just wanted you to know that even though I don't post as often as my father did, I read this thread pretty much every day. After the family donation to St. Jude Hospital, I am back to my everyday watching for someone that might need some help. A few times on my off days I have made the "rounds" of the thrift stores in the area. I was fortunate to shake the hand of three different veterans. One from World War two and two others that were vets during the Korean war. This time around, after shaking their hands and thanking them for their service, I went to the manager and gave them thirty dollars each in cash and then I left the store before the vets even got to the register. I know the managers at each store and confident that they did apply the money to their purchase and any money left over would be given to each of them. Each time I got in my truck to leave I felt an overwhelming sense of emotion. To do these things anonymously is something that sends goose bumps up my back. I sensed Dad's presence each time. Hopefully one day after I get a lot more time in on the bike, I can offer advice to new riders as well. I think of all you pretty much all the time and grateful for the wonderful replies and advice. With that being said, I wish you "warm sunny days and safe rides". God bless...……..Brian
#395
07-27-2018, 08:45 PM
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#396
07-27-2018, 10:02 PM
Hi All,
Seems its been raining forever in Maryland, especially on the way home from work today. Grass needs cut, and numerous other 'HONEY DO'S), lol. Just wanted you to know that even though I don't post as often as my father did, I read this thread pretty much every day. After the family donation to St. Jude Hospital, I am back to my everyday watching for someone that might need some help. A few times on my off days I have made the "rounds" of the thrift stores in the area. I was fortunate to shake the hand of three different veterans. One from World War two and two others that were vets during the Korean war. This time around, after shaking their hands and thanking them for their service, I went to the manager and gave them thirty dollars each in cash and then I left the store before the vets even got to the register. I know the managers at each store and confident that they did apply the money to their purchase and any money left over would be given to each of them. Each time I got in my truck to leave I felt an overwhelming sense of emotion. To do these things anonymously is something that sends goose bumps up my back. I sensed Dad's presence each time. Hopefully one day after I get a lot more time in on the bike, I can offer advice to new riders as well. I think of all you pretty much all the time and grateful for the wonderful replies and advice. With that being said, I wish you "warm sunny days and safe rides". God bless...……..Brian
Seems its been raining forever in Maryland, especially on the way home from work today. Grass needs cut, and numerous other 'HONEY DO'S), lol. Just wanted you to know that even though I don't post as often as my father did, I read this thread pretty much every day. After the family donation to St. Jude Hospital, I am back to my everyday watching for someone that might need some help. A few times on my off days I have made the "rounds" of the thrift stores in the area. I was fortunate to shake the hand of three different veterans. One from World War two and two others that were vets during the Korean war. This time around, after shaking their hands and thanking them for their service, I went to the manager and gave them thirty dollars each in cash and then I left the store before the vets even got to the register. I know the managers at each store and confident that they did apply the money to their purchase and any money left over would be given to each of them. Each time I got in my truck to leave I felt an overwhelming sense of emotion. To do these things anonymously is something that sends goose bumps up my back. I sensed Dad's presence each time. Hopefully one day after I get a lot more time in on the bike, I can offer advice to new riders as well. I think of all you pretty much all the time and grateful for the wonderful replies and advice. With that being said, I wish you "warm sunny days and safe rides". God bless...……..Brian
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#397
08-04-2018, 08:33 PM
Hi All,
Just needed to share my thoughts and say hello. In just a few days it will be 6 months since my dad died. It's been a long work week and I'm glad to be home and off for a few days. Sitting here listening to some Zac Brown songs, enjoying a cold beer and "Free" just played. Mom and Dad lived that song before I was born. They were as "free as they would ever be". Then I was born. Dad gave up and sacrificed so many things to raise me and give me the opportunities I had in life, College, a loving home that many people never got to experience. Words just can't describe the love that I was blessed with. Planting that thought to all of you for a reason. Not everyone has money to help others. There are so many ways to help someone. Sometimes it can be as simple as just talking and not just listening to what they say, but letting them know there are still many people who really care. My suggestion is this. Educate yourself as best you can, Google the VA hospitals, charities, shelters, etc. in your area. Put those numbers and addresses in your phone contacts. Make a phone call for them. Give them a ride if needed. It's not all about the money. It's about showing compassion and putting hope in someone's heart. Tears are flowing right now and so you know, tomorrow I am riding with friends of Dad's. Need it, and looking forward to it. And yes, I am rambling once again. Sometimes these emotional days cut deep into my soul. I ask all of you to please, please, please help someone when you have the opportunity. I will be going to bike week in Ocean City, Maryland next month with several of my fathers long time friends including those who went to Florida with us. It would be nice if I could meet some of you. Until then nothing but "warm sunny days" wished for all you. God bless and good night.
Just needed to share my thoughts and say hello. In just a few days it will be 6 months since my dad died. It's been a long work week and I'm glad to be home and off for a few days. Sitting here listening to some Zac Brown songs, enjoying a cold beer and "Free" just played. Mom and Dad lived that song before I was born. They were as "free as they would ever be". Then I was born. Dad gave up and sacrificed so many things to raise me and give me the opportunities I had in life, College, a loving home that many people never got to experience. Words just can't describe the love that I was blessed with. Planting that thought to all of you for a reason. Not everyone has money to help others. There are so many ways to help someone. Sometimes it can be as simple as just talking and not just listening to what they say, but letting them know there are still many people who really care. My suggestion is this. Educate yourself as best you can, Google the VA hospitals, charities, shelters, etc. in your area. Put those numbers and addresses in your phone contacts. Make a phone call for them. Give them a ride if needed. It's not all about the money. It's about showing compassion and putting hope in someone's heart. Tears are flowing right now and so you know, tomorrow I am riding with friends of Dad's. Need it, and looking forward to it. And yes, I am rambling once again. Sometimes these emotional days cut deep into my soul. I ask all of you to please, please, please help someone when you have the opportunity. I will be going to bike week in Ocean City, Maryland next month with several of my fathers long time friends including those who went to Florida with us. It would be nice if I could meet some of you. Until then nothing but "warm sunny days" wished for all you. God bless and good night.
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08-05-2018, 05:00 PM
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#399
08-05-2018, 10:23 PM
One last thing. We all had a "1st day" on our bikes. Some of us were fortunate enough to know someone that mentored and advised us on how to ride. When a new rider posts a question, help them as best you can with good advice. Social media wasn't around back then, so help them with good advice and remember they will be out on the road with you. Yes, I did all the crazy crap in the beginning. Wanting to be cool and be noticed. Nothing wrong with that but there are a great many of you that can share your experience with a new rider. The end result being you have helped someone to come home safe every day. I will continue to read this wonderful forum and appreciate the replies, but will not post. My diagnosis is terminal. It has been a wonderful adventure for me and I wish you all nothing but the ability to enjoy life. Ride safe.........
as for myself i been helping out 2 close friends who just purchased bike this year who never rode before i pushed them to take classes and trying to teach and give them what ever advice i can to help them be safe even bought a bell for one of them maybe me posting this will make your dad smile knowing someone is trying to do good for others to "COME HOME SAFE"
so wish you "sunny warm days" and miles of smiles!
