On my 18 Roadking, usually have shock set to 3. Using HD preload table with no TourPack, BUT large touring bag on rack, which table to use to determine where to adjust shock? Me at 170 plus wife at 140 plus luggage at 55lbs. Somewhat confused.

 

I would use the table specific to your bike (no Tour-Pack). Your weight, plus additional weight of passenger, cargo and accessories puts you off the chart. Set it to the max with the load you described.