12 Second Rule & my techniques to Surviving The Asphalt Jungle
I can't belive I only just remembered this. This summer as I was coming home I noticed the man accross the street (our driveways are almost opposite each other) was backing out of his drive. My 1st thought was if he doesn't look or stop, we could or would crash. So luckily, I stopped (despite having the right of way). Guess what, he didn't stop because he had not looked. Next, facing me & seeing me sitting stopped on the road, he quickly realized his error and its potential gravity, he then pulled up to me and apologized. I replied Alan, motorcycles are everywhere.
He nodded & we went our ways. Me, so very glad, I'd fortunately decided to stop vs proceed.
In the past, I've been guilty of the exact same thing, but at one point started to improve before I nailed a neighbor walking the dog or worse a child. I'm quite confident that my own previous errors ( been there, done that) lead me quickly see the danger & stop. Glad too, that for once, I learned & lived despite what's been my usual live & learn.
He nodded & we went our ways. Me, so very glad, I'd fortunately decided to stop vs proceed.
In the past, I've been guilty of the exact same thing, but at one point started to improve before I nailed a neighbor walking the dog or worse a child. I'm quite confident that my own previous errors ( been there, done that) lead me quickly see the danger & stop. Glad too, that for once, I learned & lived despite what's been my usual live & learn.
An old tomb stone recital "He was right dead right but he's as dead as if he'd been wrong".
New rider here after over 30yrs, and I'll add this after over 20 of big truck manipulation without so much as a scratch. Except for my last year when I was rear ended on I40 with the cruise set at 76? The higher you look out your windshield, if you have one on a bike, but the same principle applies, the further you actually see down the road. Most cage drivers look right at the end of the hood, and it shows.
Big difference.
Last edited by Robertbc3141; Dec 8, 2025 at 07:03 AM.
You know in 51 years of riding I have never had a close call with a trucker. Almost every single time I ride anywhere with the cars though. Truckers in general are good drivers - part of it I guess is that they don't make suddenly jerky motions ignoring that you're there, "almost" feel safe riding around them.
Big difference.
Big difference.
ole saying: "aim high on the steering and always leave yourself an out"
however, due diligence does not always work. case in point. came up on an intersection and the red light went green/yellow/red in a heartbeat, no time to stop and it was a blind intersection as an old lady planted heavy shrubbery to block traffic noise. made a mortal mistake and tried to beat if by going diagonal across the intersection but when i saw that wasn't working, laid the machine down and let it take the beating, thanks to dirt tracking. bought the machine aug 1974 and totaled it jan 1975. thank goodness it was winter and no helmet law was around and i worn a real navy P-coat. took the front end of a real bumper on a 1972 chevy impala. funny thing is everything went slow motion the black for a second, opened my eyes or whatever was going on and saw i was in the middle of the intersection and got up and ran to the side of the road, shaken but not stirred. well meaning people came and kept putting me laying down till i cut loose on them as i HAD to get my helmet off as i was burning hot, then an ambulance came and wisked me away. the only thing that was messed up was some bruised kidneys and when i left the machine the manual foot swung out and caught my boot and ripped it off my foot. what saved me later grief was the signal was messed up and blame shifted.
there was this time when me and my brother-in-law riding side by side and both hit a pig running across the road at dusk, wild ride but we didn't hit the dirt, not so much for the under wear though!
toooo many experiences.
however, due diligence does not always work. case in point. came up on an intersection and the red light went green/yellow/red in a heartbeat, no time to stop and it was a blind intersection as an old lady planted heavy shrubbery to block traffic noise. made a mortal mistake and tried to beat if by going diagonal across the intersection but when i saw that wasn't working, laid the machine down and let it take the beating, thanks to dirt tracking. bought the machine aug 1974 and totaled it jan 1975. thank goodness it was winter and no helmet law was around and i worn a real navy P-coat. took the front end of a real bumper on a 1972 chevy impala. funny thing is everything went slow motion the black for a second, opened my eyes or whatever was going on and saw i was in the middle of the intersection and got up and ran to the side of the road, shaken but not stirred. well meaning people came and kept putting me laying down till i cut loose on them as i HAD to get my helmet off as i was burning hot, then an ambulance came and wisked me away. the only thing that was messed up was some bruised kidneys and when i left the machine the manual foot swung out and caught my boot and ripped it off my foot. what saved me later grief was the signal was messed up and blame shifted.
there was this time when me and my brother-in-law riding side by side and both hit a pig running across the road at dusk, wild ride but we didn't hit the dirt, not so much for the under wear though!
toooo many experiences.
Last edited by bustert; Dec 8, 2025 at 08:46 AM.
Just last week a friend's son was partially T-Boned - not a full-on broadside, thank God - in his car by another car doing 50 MPH that ran a red light. He's OK - mostly just shaken up - but had he moved on his green light just a split second sooner ...
The jerk that hit him had a kid in the car and was speeding because he running late getting the kid to school. After bouncing off my friend's son's car, they slammed into a pickup truck and overturned.
Both the speeding parent and his kid were then sped away in an ambulance.
Brilliant.
Last edited by OneLastBike; Dec 9, 2025 at 07:14 PM.
I just installed a jumper wire device thing to allow the spot lights to stay on when you flash the hi beam.
Can't just do that continuously in the heavy traffic around here, but sometimes.
But I always have the spots on - whether that's legal or not or inconsiderate I don't care.
Last edited by Robertbc3141; Dec 9, 2025 at 08:28 PM.
I also wired my spots (passing lights) to stay on with hi beam. Everything I read said it was legal in Canada. I don't understand why they should be off with hi beams on anyway.
The flashing of high beam means different things to different people. Over here it's generally done to signal "after you".
The CAN bus bikes are programmable for what should happen with the lighting I believe.
The CAN bus bikes are programmable for what should happen with the lighting I believe.
It's not so polite around here.
No one here would ever get or think that.
Specifically It means attention ******** put your phone down and turn your high beams off or attention ******** put your phone down and see me.
But very specifically the one I usually use it for is attention ******** put your phone down and try not to turn left in front of me.
Similarly turning your lights off and back on quickly means attentiont ******** put your phone down and turn your lights on.
So unspecifically it generally means attention ******** put your phone down and pay attention.
Last edited by Robertbc3141; Dec 11, 2025 at 04:14 AM.
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