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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 04:56 AM
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Hope things work out for you and her, but if it doesnt, dont push it. If she doesnt want to ride now and something were to happen sure you couldnt live with that. Some are just better on the back seat.
 
Old Jun 25, 2009 | 08:18 AM
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Death of a dream...
Sounds like the death of YOUR dream, but not HERS!! I couldn't live with myself if I pushed my wife to ride
and something happened to her. If she pursued riding on her own, then so be it.
 
Old Jun 25, 2009 | 09:01 AM
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As a final note here.. to Jam. cody and some others.. yep, it's my dream, and my rant, vent or whatever.. I've openly admitted that. But like I said. It was her gig from the start. It was her decision to learn to ride in the first place, and she's had the final say from the start of it. And wherever it goes from here, whether or not she gets back on the sportster, or moves to a smaller bike, or just rides two up with me from here on will be her choice too.

Anyway, thanks for all your thoughts..

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Old Jun 25, 2009 | 09:45 AM
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[QUOTE=Centerline;5179441 It has taken me the better part of 20 years to get my wife to sort-of-understand the function of an air-conditioning thermostat.[/QUOTE]

How did you do that?
 
Old Jun 25, 2009 | 10:25 AM
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There are lots of really nice bikes for sale all over the USA with less than 1500 miles on them, due to folks buying them, trying to ride, getting scared for some reason and giving up.Ladies look at learning to ride differently than guys do- We realize the risk we are taking and are more scared at the beginning.I have been riding my own since 1970 and am a ride coach. Ladies need to decide they want to ride on their own as somethig they want to do for themselves rather than trying to please the sig other. I always respect the gals who do ride their own, but wonder at those who will not take their bike out of the garage unless another rider is with them for " safety". I ride every day in all sorts of weather, and do cross country vacation trips alone and love my solo miles and cannot imagine a day without riding but I also admire the guts of those who try and then decide it is not their sport. If your wife decides to just enjoy being the passenger- be glad for that!
 
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Good luck to ya Mavrick. I hope everything works out.
 
Old Jun 25, 2009 | 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by GeorgiaGirl
Engine Guard; wrap it with duct tape then practice; practice and more practice plus patience and don't beat yourself up too much. Did you take the MSF Course? Rather than give up, if you badly want to ride, stow the Sporty and back up and get a smaller bike to ride for a while instead.
I've thought about an engine guard...luckily my topple-over only got the brake lever and the rear turn indicator...I do lack patience...that's probably my biggest downfall!! Yes, I did take the MSF course, and scored the highest, even among those that are already riding! My instructors laughed at me the entire time b/c I had no patience w/ myself...I had a Rebel and thought that I was ready for something bigger...I don't know...guess I'll give it a little more time, a lot more practice, and see what happens...maybe it's just not for me??? Hopefully that's not the case...thanks for your words of encouragement!!!
 
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