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Old Aug 25, 2014 | 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by C.J
Your right.

I really was trying to keep it as easy as possible for him.

BTW, he texted me 2 times yesterday to thank me for taking the time to ride with him. He said he got a lot out of our ride together.



I gotta give you credit, you have way more patience than I would probably have.
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 09:51 AM
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Tell him to keep being a ***** as long as he needs to be and keep reminding him that his throttle can be a bigger friend than his brakes.
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 09:53 AM
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My wife has bought her first bike a couple of weeks ago and after riding with her this weekend, she has the same problem and rides way too slow. The idiots in Colorado can't drive themselves out of a paper bag and can not be trusted and WILL DO something stupid. I'm hoping this weekend she'll be able to pick up the pace...
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 10:07 AM
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It's cool that you took the time to help a newb. I can say as a second time newbie (I haven't ridden in 20+ yrs) that the only way to get comfortable at higher speeds is to ride as much as possible at slower speeds to gain competence and confidence. I started out again by riding in the neighborhood so I could get use to starting and stopping, as well getting use to how the bike handles. I then took some rides on divided local roads at 45MPH, and then graduated to 55MPH rides. Maybe you should suggest the same to him. Tell him to spend some seat time in a quiet neighborhood and gradually he'll likely want to ride faster....
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 10:15 AM
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He'll pick up the pace as he gets more comfortable on the bike out on the road. Smaller roads will make that happen a lot more quickly than Interstates. He needs to transition from one to the other to gain skills and confidence. We've all been there at some point - few of us learned to ride on the Interstate.
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 10:16 AM
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I'm thinking all he needs is more hours in the saddle. If his only weak point is riding too slow, and he didn't do anything mentally stupid, and he didn't do anything to indicate that he's not capable of controlling his bike (at his current skill level, of course), then he should be fine.

Keep encouraging him, and keep him riding with you when possible. Tell him: "Ok, today's assignment is to keep up with me!", and then gently bump it up a few mph.

I'm glad he's got you to ride with, and thanks for helping him out!
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 10:17 AM
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His first experience with speeds over 45 mph shouldn't be with traffic behind him. An empty road, you leading him, tell him he has to keep within 5 bike lengths of you. And tell him he is NOT to look at his speedo, no matter what. Tell him you will manage the speed in a manner that is safe for the both of you taking into consideration the road surface, the surroundings, and his experience level. Looking at the speedo freaks out new riders. "HOLY SHIZNIT! I'm going 55 on something I didn't know how to even start three weeks ago!"
 
Old Aug 25, 2014 | 10:28 AM
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Not a bad idea...just put some tape over his speedo and tell him to stay with you.
 
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Originally Posted by C.J
Yes, side by side.
Well, I'm glad that you told him that he's not ready for something that the MSF course would have told him never to do. LOL
 
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Originally Posted by C.J
..."we are not gonna lane share, your not ready for that...
Originally Posted by mmancuso
Well, I'm glad that you told him that he's not ready for something that the MSF course would have told him never to do. LOL
Holy crap. How did I miss that. I gotta start reading slower.

Never ride side by side. It's not about "being ready", it's suicide.
 



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