How come the rudest people so far have been other harley riders?
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Sarah,
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'roaring past you pretty close' does not really say much. was he in his lane? was he in your lane? if you were in the left lane, right hand side, and he passed you on the right in the left wheel track, is that 'pretty close'?
as far as being intimidated by 'your size', meh, i doubt it. but, as justonedean mentioned, you might want to adjust your dress as appropriate.
as far as being intimidated by 'your size', meh, i doubt it. but, as justonedean mentioned, you might want to adjust your dress as appropriate.
Guess I would be one of those "********" you are talking about. If we are at a stoplight together don't expect me to engage in conversation with you. I may wave or whatever but I am more concerned about the car coming up behind me stopping, or seeing who is on their phone texting, or what traffic may come blasting through that intersection when the light turns green for me........you get the idea. I don't strike up conversations with dudes in public restrooms either.....
I think you misunderstand. I wasn't trying to engage in any conversation. all I pretty much said was "hey, whats up" that's it.
Tank "top" I thought only chicks wore "tops". Right now I'm picturing Freddy Mercury on his way to do some alternative lifestyle nightclubbing. NTTAWWT Maybe the 1st guy was trying to impress you by being all Alpha. The second guy may have been a homophobe.
Ok.....now that I've had my fun.......you're a new rider. Experienced riders read situations differently than you. What you consider a fly by, we might not even log in the memory banks .5 seconds after it happened. The silent guy may have nodded or whatever and you didn't notice. It's subtle and we don't exactly exchange Facebook information at every chance encounter at a stoplight. Too much stoplight interaction gets creepy fast. And by too much, I mean anything beyond a nod.
So none of that stuff is rude in our world. Rude is the guy gets off his bike and pops you in the face and rides off. That's rude.
PS - as a new rider you should be wearing things that will protect you in a fall. Invest in a good mesh jacket and some Slider jeans. Always wear a helmet and gloves.
Ok.....now that I've had my fun.......you're a new rider. Experienced riders read situations differently than you. What you consider a fly by, we might not even log in the memory banks .5 seconds after it happened. The silent guy may have nodded or whatever and you didn't notice. It's subtle and we don't exactly exchange Facebook information at every chance encounter at a stoplight. Too much stoplight interaction gets creepy fast. And by too much, I mean anything beyond a nod.
So none of that stuff is rude in our world. Rude is the guy gets off his bike and pops you in the face and rides off. That's rude.
PS - as a new rider you should be wearing things that will protect you in a fall. Invest in a good mesh jacket and some Slider jeans. Always wear a helmet and gloves.
Not sure when the last time you've been in a gym, but guys where tank tops everywhere. Whether in gym or out. Let me rephrase. those that can pull it off. Guys that are built wear them.. If you have tattoos, you show them off, right. same thing.
Tank "top" I thought only chicks wore "tops". Right now I'm picturing Freddy Mercury on his way to do some alternative lifestyle nightclubbing. NTTAWWT Maybe the 1st guy was trying to impress you by being all Alpha. The second guy may have been a homophobe.
Ok.....now that I've had my fun.......you're a new rider. Experienced riders read situations differently than you. What you consider a fly by, we might not even log in the memory banks .5 seconds after it happened. The silent guy may have nodded or whatever and you didn't notice. It's subtle and we don't exactly exchange Facebook information at every chance encounter at a stoplight. Too much stoplight interaction gets creepy fast. And by too much, I mean anything beyond a nod.
So none of that stuff is rude in our world. Rude is the guy gets off his bike and pops you in the face and rides off. That's rude.
PS - as a new rider you should be wearing things that will protect you in a fall. Invest in a good mesh jacket and some Slider jeans. Always wear a helmet and gloves.
Ok.....now that I've had my fun.......you're a new rider. Experienced riders read situations differently than you. What you consider a fly by, we might not even log in the memory banks .5 seconds after it happened. The silent guy may have nodded or whatever and you didn't notice. It's subtle and we don't exactly exchange Facebook information at every chance encounter at a stoplight. Too much stoplight interaction gets creepy fast. And by too much, I mean anything beyond a nod.
So none of that stuff is rude in our world. Rude is the guy gets off his bike and pops you in the face and rides off. That's rude.
PS - as a new rider you should be wearing things that will protect you in a fall. Invest in a good mesh jacket and some Slider jeans. Always wear a helmet and gloves.
AS far as protecting me from a fall. I plan on not falling. I know that's a unique concept. But the best gear is between your ears. Don't crash. I maybe a new bike rider, but i've been on the road for over 20 years. I have good road awareness. And simply do not plan on getting in a crash. And contrary to the old myth about, only 2 kind of riders, those that have crashed and those that will is total bull. I personally know riders that have never had an accident in over 20+ years of riding.
It was the cargo pants. Cargo pants can be very tricky when accessorizing. What kind of shoes were you wearing and what color? What kind and color was your belt? Did they compliment your helmet, or did they clash? It would be helpful to know what color were the cargo pants as well as the tank top. HD riders are very fashion conscious and want to make sure you look good when you're out there "representin'". If you were wearing a scarf thinking it gave you the WWI Flying Ace look, it didn't. You'll have to surrender your man card.
For God's sake man, do NOT wear a Sons of Anarchy tank top. You'll end up the focus of another thread. There is a fine line looking like Billy Badass versus Donny Douchebag. You don't want to cross it.
Here are some helpful tips.
1. Grow a beard. I know....you're going to look gay for the first month. Hang in there once you're sporting a decent amount of facial hair you are well on your way.
2. Get some tattoos. The more the merrier.
3. Get a novelty helmet. The ones that look like a **** or Star Wars Storm Trooper are quite popular. It will help you look dangerous.
4. Wallet on a chain. That is a "Must Have". Forget the fanny pack. That look just can't be pulled off on a Harley.
5. Put together an outfit that you like and then stick with it. Wear it every time you ride and what ever you do, don't wash it. Ever.
6. Practice your "man nod" and the "biker wave" and you'll be golden.
There you have it. Follow everything I've detailed above and you will be accepted into the fold.
Alternatively, you could just say "fock it!", go for a ride and forgetaboutit.
For God's sake man, do NOT wear a Sons of Anarchy tank top. You'll end up the focus of another thread. There is a fine line looking like Billy Badass versus Donny Douchebag. You don't want to cross it.
Here are some helpful tips.
1. Grow a beard. I know....you're going to look gay for the first month. Hang in there once you're sporting a decent amount of facial hair you are well on your way.
2. Get some tattoos. The more the merrier.
3. Get a novelty helmet. The ones that look like a **** or Star Wars Storm Trooper are quite popular. It will help you look dangerous.
4. Wallet on a chain. That is a "Must Have". Forget the fanny pack. That look just can't be pulled off on a Harley.
5. Put together an outfit that you like and then stick with it. Wear it every time you ride and what ever you do, don't wash it. Ever.
6. Practice your "man nod" and the "biker wave" and you'll be golden.
There you have it. Follow everything I've detailed above and you will be accepted into the fold.
Alternatively, you could just say "fock it!", go for a ride and forgetaboutit.
I like your post. haha I do have many tattoos. I was wearing camo cargo with a green tank top. Only reason, they have numerous pockets to carry my different things. and no beard. They make you look older. Don't care for that.
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I would think wearing the typical leather jacket, leather boots would be a poser. Not wearing something I normally wear anyways..
I can agree. I'm on the anti social side myself. I was actually trying to be nice and not be that way.. but we learn from our mistakes. I have.
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Why not just wear a metal can as gear? That will really protect you. Riding gear will not matter if you hit a car head on. Sure, it might protect from a few scrapes and scratches. But the discomfort while riding is not worth it.. Id rather ride cautious and aware, and not crash.
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Like I said good plan...
not all my plans work out the way I originally intended, maybe yours do
Put another way - I really don't know anyone who plans to fall or goes out and plans to ride without caution or awareness. I think its safe to say that 99.9% of everyone I see out on a motorcycle doesn't plan to have an accident.
But there are a lot of folks out there that have some form of plan B. Its probably not wearing full racing leathers with air bags built into the joints but its probably safe to say its something between buck **** necked skin sliding along the pavement and full racing leathers.
Wear what you want but don't be ignorant about your choices. Own up to them and be honest with yourself and others. Telling yourself, and us, that you plan to not fall, is only part of an intelligent answer.
not all my plans work out the way I originally intended, maybe yours do
Put another way - I really don't know anyone who plans to fall or goes out and plans to ride without caution or awareness. I think its safe to say that 99.9% of everyone I see out on a motorcycle doesn't plan to have an accident.
But there are a lot of folks out there that have some form of plan B. Its probably not wearing full racing leathers with air bags built into the joints but its probably safe to say its something between buck **** necked skin sliding along the pavement and full racing leathers.
Wear what you want but don't be ignorant about your choices. Own up to them and be honest with yourself and others. Telling yourself, and us, that you plan to not fall, is only part of an intelligent answer.