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Old Apr 18, 2015 | 11:30 PM
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Hello Everyone!

Long story just a bit shorter: my wife and I have never been on a bike, two weeks ago she goes on a ride with a girlfriend and loves it and declares she wants a bike...fine with me, but I'm not riding on the back of hers so I need one two. She wants a Softail Slim mainly because she is short.

I start looking for a bike, but I have an issue to deal with. At the age of 37 I was diagnosed with Cancer in July 2012 and given 12 months to live, well 58 chemo treatments later I am still here and pretty damn healthy. My wife and I are looking forward to riding together since we really don't know how much time we have (hell, none of us really do). Most of our riding would be day trips with an occasional 3-4 day trip. I am not as strong as I once was so I was looking at a switchback since it's not real heavy and I like the look, but the dealerships say go heritage Softail. I'm looking at a 2012 or newer, but realizing that this bike may only be used for a year or two.

I know it's a generic question, and a lot depends on how it feels, but with out going to 3 wheels, any suggestions?

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Old Apr 18, 2015 | 11:53 PM
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The Switchback weighs just about as much as the Touring bikes. You'd probably be happier with a Superglide or something along that line. The Slim is a good platform for the vertically challenged but you both need to enroll and complete a safety course first and foremost and even then I would start with something a little smaller and lighter until you're both comfortable with being on two wheels. You wouldn't be the first people to buy a HD and then get scared senseless of the responsibility of riding a large and I mean large heavy motorbike only to put it up for sale a week or two later.
 
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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 12:07 AM
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I agree with OldEnuf, the very first thing both of you should do is take a riding course. I know our local HD dealer offers riding courses you might want to check with yours. I've never looked into demo'ing bikes but after you pass your class you could see what bikes Harley offers demo's or rentals on and maybe try some different models that way.
By the way congrats on your cancer being in remission, I have a friend who has one more chemo treatment left, hopefully its good news after that.
 

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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted by OldEnuf2NoBtr
I would start with something a little smaller and lighter until you're both comfortable with being on two wheels. You wouldn't be the first people to buy a HD and then get scared senseless of the responsibility of riding a large and I mean large heavy motorbike only to put it up for sale a week or two later.
I agree with this and would add 'riding' a motorcycle can lose some of it's luster when actually riding among the cages, which is something you won't get with most classes.

Over the last 40+ years I have seen many 'new' riders. Most don't last long, for various reasons.

Some don't last long at all.

This isn't like learning to drive a cage, a simple mistake or an accident can have serious consequences.
 

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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 12:13 AM
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We are both taking the new rider class at our local dealership before we do anything! A
 
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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 05:57 AM
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I'd buy a used one first something cheap to see if it's something you two really want to invest in. I thought my wife would get into riding, but years later and she still has zero interest whatsoever.
 
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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 12:35 PM
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not to be morbid but here is a quick story. At my local dealership they had a guy come in with terminal cancer, he bought a brand new cvo breakout with the chrome/black/orange paint scheme. He also bought a trike and wanted it painted to match the breakout. the chrome tins were the problem for the trike, they went through several vinyl graphic places and contacted everyone they could to try and reproduce the breakouts paint. They explained the situation to the guy several times but he was insistent the trike matched the breakout, it's what he really wanted and they did everything they could to make that happen for the guy. well you know where this is going...

sadly the guy passes away, the breakout sitting there and the trike in pieces.

My advice, buy any bike you can afford and put as many miles on it as you can physically handle. Later, if you are up to it you can upgrade to something else but for now the experience of riding is more important then what you are riding. Get out there and enjoy yourself dude!
 
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Old Apr 19, 2015 | 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by SpaceReapersNOLA
not to be morbid but here is a quick story. At my local dealership they had a guy come in with terminal cancer, he bought a brand new cvo breakout with the chrome/black/orange paint scheme. He also bought a trike and wanted it painted to match the breakout. the chrome tins were the problem for the trike, they went through several vinyl graphic places and contacted everyone they could to try and reproduce the breakouts paint. They explained the situation to the guy several times but he was insistent the trike matched the breakout, it's what he really wanted and they did everything they could to make that happen for the guy. well you know where this is going...

sadly the guy passes away, the breakout sitting there and the trike in pieces.

My advice, buy any bike you can afford and put as many miles on it as you can physically handle. Later, if you are up to it you can upgrade to something else but for now the experience of riding is more important then what you are riding. Get out there and enjoy yourself dude!
^ This is some sound advice. For the very first bike, why don't you have wife try a 2011+ model Sportster Low? Preferably a used one. It's light and low for someone starting to ride for the very first time in her life. For yourself, you can go for any Dyna model. I think I read a Superglide somewhere in above posts which is a very good choice.

As SpaceReapersNOLA said, the most important thing for you guys is to ride. Once you are comfortable to be on two wheels riding in traffic, twisty roads and have better control at slow speeds (don't discount of this step in your learning), any bike that fits your size and handling abilities is fine.

I have 2 very close relatives who are in very similar situation with cancer so I know what you have been through. Have fun and don't hold back. Life is too short anyways cancer or not.
 
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The cool thing is that we are blessed enough that neither one of us works so we have a lot of time to ride together, probably most days, starting very slow. We have some quiet country roads around us to start with.

Thanks for the input!
 
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Congratulations on staying this side if dirt!!! If I could afford to have a 3rd bike it would be the Breakout, especially the CVO mostly because it is already set up for comfort with less bar reach.
 
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