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Old Jul 29, 2008 | 01:58 PM
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Life is short - your dollar gain might be at your wife's expense - give it back and smile - you will earn points in the great beyond - if there is one - otherwise you will just be nice and have made somebody happy
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:01 PM
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I know how you feel, but I would give it back too.&nbsp\\; You don't know what problems it could cause your wife at work if you kept it, even if you legally had a right to keep it.
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:04 PM
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a deals a deal but to keep the peace, split the difference
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:08 PM
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I would give her the money back. Deal is a deal but why not be the good guy.
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:10 PM
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Just give it back. It isn't worth it. You will sell the bike.
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:10 PM
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If you can financially handle giving her the deposit back without selling your bike, then that's what I'd do.&nbsp\\; If not, I would explain that you put the money down on another bike, don't have the 500 until the bike sells, but you promise to give it to her when you do.&nbsp\\; As long as you're honest then I think that's ok.&nbsp\\; And if you can't give her the money back until you sell your bike, you'll have somebody else helping you sell your bike.
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:13 PM
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Just what I want to do is get the bad karma that some used car and bike dealers deserve.
ORIGINAL: Curt1953

A used car or bike dealer wouldn't give the money back, why should you.
 
Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:18 PM
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You should spend the money on non-refundable gift cards to local businesses, and give her those.&nbsp\\; That way she'll be really irritated, and your community will prosper.
 
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Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:26 PM
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Did ya really need to ask this here?&nbsp\\; LOL..
Ya already know what the right thing to do is..
It kinda bites that the right thing is rarely the easy thing..
But You know... "What comes around, Go's around"
You won't be sorry you did it..
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Old Jul 29, 2008 | 02:57 PM
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Consider this.How soon would the item that you buy with that 500 become just another thing compared to how long your wife would have to endure a bad relationship at work.
 



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