lowering question
I'm hesitant to suggest the 10" shocks for <5' female, as they will most likely feel the ride is way too stiff/hard. However, I'm running the 10" heavy duties. Riding solo, I find the ride harsh at times, but 2-up it seems to ride pretty nice....Maybe I'm heavy enough solo to get the HD springs to work properly.

As I stated before, and 7/11 stated, look into a new seat with a narrower width so your wife's legs aren't spreadout as far when trying to stand and the thicker soled boots.
I would like it if she could at least have the ***** of her feet touch the ground. Sound reasonable/do-able?
So where are we, now? If someone can lift the bike off the stand and FIRMLY place the ***** of their feet on pavement, the bike can be ridden, but not backed up very well. If a Sportster is the particular challenge, then low-profile narrow-nosed seat, foam shaved if necessary, mid controls, 10" Lick's shocks with belt guard removed so it won't hit the oil tank, and maybe rotating the handlebars back toward the rider a bit for better reach, with the switches and mirrors adjusted accordingly. Maybe even pull back risers. It's gonna be a bare bones seat, probably not too comfy, and ridiculously short shocks...again not a cushy ride. Even then, after all of that work and/or expense....it still might not work.
I will guess the most a 1200 Low can be lowered is 2.5". WVHogRider? Do you think you went even lower than that? I'm including about 1/2" lower from the Ultima seat...is it narrow enough for what we're talking about?
Teek
The ride is going to be stiff with the 10" shocks. I went from stock XLH (Standard not a Hugger) 13" shocks to 10" Lick's shocks, so yeah I got more than 2.5" of lowering with the shocks alone. However, as stated I'm ~180-190 lbs (with a 30" inseam), and at times I find the ride a tad rough riding solo, but I've noticed that the ride smoothes out somewhat & travels better riding 2-Up with the GF, (~130lbs--?--Ain't about to ask a little italian woman with an attitude what her weight is). I bet that you could get 2.5" out of a Low model, but it would include reshaping a seat & shocks, or seat, shocks & lowering brackets to keep some more suspension travel.
Since both models are already rather low, also novice women riders, and if you've already got the sporty sitting there...I'd definately start with the seat re-shaping & boot shopping. They'll want some suspension travel, so I would then consider something like the 11"-11.5" Pro's, (or something), with lowering blocks. Not sure what else to lean towards at the moment, as my brain is fried from working all day yesterday & then sittin' in the ER with the GF all night until 3AM & then getting back up at 5:30AM this morning for work again.



