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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 04:43 PM
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That ain't her in the pic is it?
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Texas Rapier
Call all your girl friends and let them know you'll be in town but you have the wife with you so If they see you they know not to walk up and say hello.

If your girlfriends don't know your married, do go anywhere near their.
Truer words were never spoken...
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by riskmanager
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I have been riding over a year now on my 2008 Ultra Classic. My wife is ready to ride on the back this year. Any words of wisdom; from basic details to more intricacies, will be appreciated. Thanks everyone!!
RULES: She waits for you to tell her to "get on" & "get off"! You don't tell her that till you're ready! Once she's on she sits still with the backrest centered on her back! Don't lean anywhere that backrest isn't leaning! Just relax & ride the backrest. Above 40 mph she can move her feet, turn & look to the side/rear, lean forward & talk, etc. Below 40 mph she SITS STILL AGAINST THE BACKREST.

Teach her that if you should go down, to put the low side foot out to get it out from under the bike.

Those rules will get her through the learning process, & when she becomes comfortable you'll have developed a joint riding style.
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by riskmanager
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I have been riding over a year now on my 2008 Ultra Classic. My wife is ready to ride on the back this year. Any words of wisdom; from basic details to more intricacies, will be appreciated. Thanks everyone!!
You should strive to be very deliberate in starting, stopping, turning, parking, basically all phases of riding. You can get away with a lot of sloppy habits riding solo, but having a passenger on the back is less forgiving and makes everything more challenging.

Bottomline: you must be more deliberate and careful in everything you do when carrying a passenger.
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 06:29 PM
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Great suggestions for you, from all the others. Google "two up motorcycle riding".
Should be lots of information. Pay attention to what others here have said about having a signal when each of you are ready. Don't touch front brake when the handel bars are turned and you are going slow. Good luck.
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 06:40 PM
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one thing leave the stand down untill shes on and she always gets on and off from the left, if she pulls you over the stand will catch u (dont ask )
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 06:57 PM
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Have a planned destination that she will like such as a nice place to eat or a festival. This will give her a time frame and something to look forward to on the ride.

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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 07:04 PM
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I found this link from a similar thread a while back... great advice!!!

http://www.chuckhawks.com/motorcycle_passenger_tips.htm
 
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Originally Posted by dawg
That ain't her in the pic is it?
....... bad Dawg, ..... bad, bad Dawg.
 
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Old Feb 22, 2010 | 07:14 PM
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My wife quit riding after a long trip to Vegas on the back of my first Harley. An old rigid Ironhead. When she climbed off after that trip she said: "That's the last time I'm ever riding a motorcycle." The trip was eight days and all she had to sit on was a small P-Pad about 4 inches wide by about 6 inches long. She meant it! It was 33 years later before she ever got back on. She now rides every chance she can. Moral to the story: Make sure she's comfortable. Take it easy. Get plenty of rest stops for her. And communicate so she knows what to expect, and what NOT to do. An old trick riding through the twisties is to have her put her chin on the your shoulder in the direction that you are going. Left turn, her chin on your left shoulder, etc.... it keeps everything in balance, and helps her realize not to lean the OPPOSITE direction if she gets a little nervous in the turns. Take it easy, and let her get used to it. You'll be fine, and so will she. Just don't do anything stupid like I did, and ruin it for her, and YOU for the next few years.
 
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