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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 05:57 PM
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The wife and I went for a ride today and stopped for gas about 5 miles from home. When she tried to start her bike(02 fatboy)....nothing. I got it started but it did and/or seem right. We head home slowly with her in the lead and about a mile down the road she starts to smoke out both pipes, she pulls over right away. I look it over again and got oil coming out air cleaner and all over side of motor. She hasn't rode that bike in about a month cause she has another and it's almost like the thing sumped the crankcase full of oil. As we are only about 3 miles from home I send her home on my bike to get truck and I sit and wait on the side of road with 4-ways blinking away.

Now, in the 15 minutes I sat there before she got back I had atleast 6 bikes of different makes go by and you wanna guess how many stopped OR even gestured to me?!.....absolutely friggin' zero!!!!.

Then as I'm like an idiot trying to push it home down the side I had atleast 3 pickups with EMPTY trailers on back drive past and not a 1 of them douches stopped either.

I try to stop or atleast slow down and gesture to every bike I see on the side of the road and I will continue to do so but I was really disappointed in my fellow local riders today.


Thanks for letting me vent, time for some of the whiskey I just brought home from Tennessee.

Scott
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:02 PM
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That's pretty bad brother. I've had a few good experiences and a few bad as well over the last few years, never on a bike though always a cage. The bikers seem a bit better around here, more so than the rest of the population
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:04 PM
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That's bullshit! I broke down last year and the only one's that stopped for a welfare check was the CHP. Totally cool. They even waited for the tilt to show up and help load it. At least try and help a brother out! Douche bags are running amok these days.
 

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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:06 PM
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I'm not saying this is why but the majority of the people today have cell phones and more than likely have called for help. I know the last 4-5 times I've stopped to ask if they needed help, they already had help coming. One drove up as I asked and one was just taking a break.
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:21 PM
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All it takes is a hand gesture.
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:32 PM
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People are just too self absorbed to stop to help.
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Dozer40
All it takes is a hand gesture.
That
If you just stood there like an ofe, nobody is going to swing in to check,,
The guys with the empty trailers have a life too, they where probably going someplace to do something with their trailer.
What do you look like? Are you someone that people want to help or look like some freak.
Is it Karma? Karma tends to be a two way street,,
No sense gettin your undies in a bunch.
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 07:13 PM
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Just in case why not get a AAA/RV card? All your vehicles including bikes for $100 - $150 a year. And they will tow where you ask them to. Not just to a dealer.
 
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I stop pretty much every time and even though every person has told me that help was on the way, every one still thanked me for my consideration. I'll keep stopping.
 
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Old Aug 6, 2016 | 07:24 PM
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Think it went with the ability to get around with your thumb. However, on a road trip with my crew, my older friend made an abrupt unplanned stop into a friend of his' long dirt road. I made it along with my son but his wife missed the turn and stopped up the road. Another biker passed her, did a U turn on the 55 MPH , came back and pulled over to help.
 

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