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Old Aug 27, 2016 | 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by RANGER73
Being you were going to buy a new helmet anyway you could have made a half hearted offer.
Originally Posted by ncdeekay
Seller beware! But, since he did seem to be a decent guy and give you all the other stuff he could have sold on e-bay and since you were going to buy new helmets anyway I do think an offer to help buy new for him and his wife would be a noble offer. But you're under absolutely no obligation IMHO.
Make an offer for what? Used helmets he refused to take back. Why should you offer him anything when he refused the actual helmets? The seller should not have put anything into the tour pak that he didn't want to include in the sale; nice guy or not.

Originally Posted by scooterbum46
You had them two weeks, wore them a few times and you're supposed to replace them??? Nope... not unless you dragged 'em down the road or did a few motos in mud .. You offered to return them. That's enough..
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Old Aug 27, 2016 | 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Bone Doc
Make an offer for what? Used helmets he refused to take back. Why should you offer him anything when he refused the actual helmets? The seller should not have put anything into the tour pak that he didn't want to include in the sale; nice guy or not.



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Well ain't you such a sweet guy! If you read his post he said he determined them to be new helmets. You do what you like but if I'm in the same position I'd make an effort to make it right - just my opinion. At the end of the day I gotta feel ok with myself.
 
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Old Aug 27, 2016 | 08:20 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it, time to move on.
 
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Old Aug 27, 2016 | 08:43 PM
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Gotta say, there's no way replacing the helmets falls on you. You offered to give them back. He said no. Case closed, everybody moves on.
 
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Old Aug 27, 2016 | 08:58 PM
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I agree with the response that YOU tried to return them. HE was being a biatch and wouldn't accept them. HIS loss not yours. I wouldn't lose any sleep over this whatsoever!!!
 
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Old Aug 28, 2016 | 02:47 AM
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Tell the seller that you will be happy to have the helmets "professionally cleaned" and they can be picked up at the detailer of his choice. Up to $20. His mistake, his loss, if he is whining about it now he is a cry baby.
 
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Old Aug 28, 2016 | 03:41 AM
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Originally Posted by ncdeekay
Well ain't you such a sweet guy! If you read his post he said he determined them to be new helmets. You do what you like but if I'm in the same position I'd make an effort to make it right - just my opinion. At the end of the day I gotta feel ok with myself.
Do you lack reading comprehension? He did make an effort to make it right by offering to return the helmets. The seller refused.
On top of that, there were numerous other extra items included. If the only the only thing extra were the helmets, I could maybe see immediately questioning if they were included or not.

OP should not give it another thought.
 
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Old Aug 28, 2016 | 04:42 AM
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The mistake was his, not yours! No Biggy! JR
 
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OP, you're in the right & PO sounds like a semi-tool over this deal. Don't look back and enjoy the new-to-you bike & helmets.

If you don't care to keep the helmets, because of this confrontation, sell them...maybe PO will buy them back.
 
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