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Old Jul 15, 2017 | 11:33 AM
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What a great idea there, and the placement is perfect! Where did you get the sticker made?
 
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Old Jul 18, 2017 | 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Norcalsvt


Just got some stickers made. This way I will see it every time I ride.
Wow Norcalsvt you came on here looking for answers and you gave all of us the biggest and best answer possible. Way to go man!
 
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Old Jul 18, 2017 | 01:36 PM
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We lost a friend just last Thursday. He was riding through NE Arkansas, taken out by a left-turner.
I have three bikes in the garage. If anything like that happens to me, two of them are going to outlast me. They are unsuitable and impractical to use as paper weights.
 
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Old Jul 18, 2017 | 08:29 PM
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sorry for your loss..... others have said it better than I... i understand the questions you have about riding again....but give it a little time... if you enjoyed the ride before.. you may again after things settle a bit... maybe just go to the bike and sit on it for a while...it helps remember.... and riding may help remember Mike and the good times you shared....take your time... you decide.......just saw the sticker...WONDERFUL!!
 

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Old Jul 18, 2017 | 08:56 PM
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I have found that Grieving,, Isn't something your "get over", "work through" or "get past".
It becomes part of you.
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I'd like to say so much more,
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At the beginning somebody had to light this,
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Old Jul 19, 2017 | 10:15 AM
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OP, very sorry for you loss; I think that you have found a very fitting way to memorialize your friend.
 
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Old Jul 19, 2017 | 12:04 PM
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I had a similar accident in April, thankfully Im typing... I bought a new bike and continued riding.. Due to some injuries I only put on about 200 miles this season but I did get back on.. Youre gonna be paranoid for a while, its normal..
 
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Old Jul 19, 2017 | 01:15 PM
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Nothing really better add, but wanted to send condolences. Reading threads like this bring things into perspective. I appreciate that people share.
I agree with grief not really going away, but it does get easier to deal with. At least it has for me in similar circumstances.
Your tribute to him is an awesome and beautiful idea.
 
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Old Jul 20, 2017 | 01:13 PM
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i got the stickers made on ebay. just looked up memorial stickers and there are a bunch to choose from. I am glad to say myself and my father went for a ride the other day. It felt good to get back in the sun. still miss mike but he wouldn't of wanted me to end my riding on his account. Thanks again everyone for the kind words and condolences. Rob
 
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Wrong post somehow
 

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