God damn it!!!
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Road Master
Joined: Jan 2008
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From: Sycamore, Illinois
Love your loved ones!!!
We had a death in our family on Christmas eve, and it has been a very tough time to deal with this. This is by far the toughest time in my life. I'm the strong one but alone here with the computer I feel I can say that this is tough. My loved ones are in pain and I don't know what to do other than just be there for them. I'm looking for advice.
Last edited by conroskie; Dec 29, 2008 at 02:26 AM.
Tourer
Joined: May 2008
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From: West central Illinois in the Mississippi river bottoms
Sorry to hear about your pain. I myself have dealt with alot of deaths in the family in the last 5 years and what your doin is the best thing you can do right now. (Be there for them) again I'm sorry to hear this, be strong for your family my man be strong.
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From: Elk Grove Village,Il.
God Bless you.And your strange title.Faith will get you through times like these.Only that and time can take the awful sting of death away from you.But it will.It's the ONE thing we all have in common.These things can bring a family closer together.I hope it does for you.
Road Master
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From: Cape Coral, Fl.
Sorry for the loss, dont loose faith. Your family is counting on the strength you provide. They are lucky to have you to lean on during tough times like this. Just be there for them. We feel your pain and are here for you.
6th Gear
Joined: Dec 2008
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From: Logan, WV
I'm sorry you and your family are going through this, especially at Christmas. Like the others said, remember the good times and be there for your family. I play the same role in my family and they look to me for strength. I know how it feels when you're all alone and need someone to lean on. It always helps me if I can ride a little, even for just a few minutes. Hang in there, buddy. My prayers are with you.
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You are doing the right thing,no one is ever prepared for that kind of emotional hit.Keep doing what you are doing and hang in there.
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As one that has lost all my family older than me and wife as well.. You have more strength than you think. Be there for others and will be helping yourself as well. And Hate to use the old Cliches but they are true .. Time Heals and Take it One day at a Time.
