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Old Jan 13, 2010 | 06:20 AM
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Originally Posted by lovemydeluxe
Just bought the girlfriend a '09 honda shadow. shes dissapointed its not a harley, which i can understand. I told her a harley isnt an option right now, maybe later. she said she'll be embarrassed riding it around anyone with a "real" bike. what do you guys think? attachted is a recent pic.
I think she's a poser.

My wife wanted to learn how to ride and I suggested a Honda shadow, indicating that Harley's were too powerful for a beginner. She said she was afraid that everyone would laugh at her because the bike was so small. Pissed me off so I told her to go ahead and do whatever she wanted, I wasn't helping.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 06:21 AM
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Darn nice starter bike.....

Only you know but doesn't sound good.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 06:22 AM
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dude... you bought her a bike fergawds sake.... WTF does she want? (yeah i know... she wants a Harley)
Tell her to STFU and ride the darn thing.... if she's "embrassed", tell her to cough up the cash for the upgrade.
Unlike many.... I'd rather ride a metric, that sit at home, complaining about not having a bike.

That Aero 750's is a nice bike... easy to handle, quick, and comfortable enough.... dependable..... and best of all... YOU bought, not her.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:07 AM
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Sounds like she has failed the test. Next thing to happen is once you propose to her she will wine about how small her engagement ring is. Then once you have a baby she will make you get rid of your dog. Then once your kid grows up a bit she will complain that you both got married to young.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:19 AM
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Was she expecting a Harley? I know if I thought I was gettin' a Harley and it turned out to be a Honda...I'd be kinda disappointed too. If not..tell her to shaddup and get on her bike and ride.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:21 AM
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That's a sure sign your in for a disappointing life with an ungrateful woman.Cut your loses now before she gets half of everything you own in divorce court.Let her get a job and buy her own ****.G.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by BobStreetBob
Was she expecting a Harley? I know if I thought I was gettin' a Harley and it turned out to be a Honda...I'd be kinda disappointed too. If not..tell her to shaddup and get on her bike and ride.
yeah sorta like expecting a kielbasa and gettin' a cocktail weanie.
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:32 AM
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Sounds like she is high maintenance...if shes bitching now wait until she has a ring on her finger.
 
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Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:34 AM
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She is a keeper if you feels that strong about riding a Harley. Let her win this one. You can win a lot of other ones that don't mean any thing. Run, Run like the wind to the Harley dealer and get her a real bike!
 
Old Jan 13, 2010 | 07:36 AM
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Hey, he did the best he could with his financial situation. No Harley dealer is gonna take a Honda quad on trade.
Good for you.
It will make her a much better starter bike anyways.
 



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