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In the last two years I've lost 4 friends I graduated HS with, all under 60 years old:
1. Art: Died from complications from a stroke. Didn't smoke, drink, or otherwise do stupid stuff. He did ride a Harley, which had nothing to do with his death.
2. Jim: Died from brain cancer. Used to ride a Yamaha 650 bout 30 years ago.
3. Mickey: Health nut. Ate right, didn't smoke or drink. Ran every day. Died in the middle of his morning run with one of those 'widow-maker' heart attacks.
4. Chris: Didn't smoke or drink. Maybe a tad overweight but not obese. Another 'widow-maker' heart attack.
And there's one of the owners of Frazier's HD in Buford, GA.
Ralph, Jr. Killed while seeking shelter during a storm on a motorcycle camping trip ... by a damn falling tree!!!
Yeah, motorcycles are dangerous!
Mal
This doesn't make the notion that motorcycles are dangerous any less true. I'm sure it is possible to find at least one, if not any number of incidents of people dying unexpectedly who were doing something considered very safe or despite appearing to be super healthy. I bet you would be hard pressed to find one other person that can match a story like yours which makes your experiences the exception and not the norm. Thus proving simply that you have had the luck of knowing people who died surprising deaths. Not that motorcycles are not inherently a more dangerous form of transportation.
That said I think it is up to each rider to make motorcycling as safe as possible for themselves by expecting that EVERYONE else on the road is either blind, deaf or stupid. I commute 85 miles one way, most of it on major highways through several larger cities and I don't think I encounter 4 close calls a year. And if I do have a close call it has never been bad enough to cause me to panic or lose control. I may have to react suddenly and get caught a bit off guard but I am quickly able to find an out and get out of the situation. I'd like to think that it because I am always trying to think five steps ahead of me. I look at everything, from the condition of the road and the availability of emergency lanes to glancing at the drivers of cars that are in my "zone" to see if they have any distractions going on.
My point is that some of us are cut out for riding and some of us are not. And I don't fancy myself a total expert. But I play it safe with every mile and just try to use as much common sense as I can.
I guess riding is just not for everyone, no matter how much they might enjoy it.
Riding a motorcycle is not for everyone. I've been riding for 20 years and have had many friends in and out of motorcycling.
For me, it's a passion. It's a way to clear my head and relieve stress. The type of bike doesn't even matter. Being on two wheels makes me happy.
Sometimes it takes a single event for you to decide it's not for you. You can always buy back in if you change your mind.
i'm dying to do this to some distracted cager one day and see their reaction lolol
sorry to see you go pal. hope you don't regret yer decision down the line.
I always get "kick" out of that advice, because you maybe dying when you see their reaction.
1. No matter how much of a bad *** you are, there is always somebody badder than you--learned that life lesson already. They maybe in that car, maybe not.
2. Even if you are armed, you will lose an encounter with a person in a 3,000 lb car if they are pissed because you kicked their mirror and they decide to use the 3,000 lb car against you. If they stop and want to rumble you may have a shot. Otherwise, you will lose. If you think you can pull a piece, ride, avoid a dumbass and fire with effect, you are awesome or have seen too many SOA episodes.
I really appreciate all the advice folks. The rest of the story behind my decision is that both of my brothers (only siblings) passed away in the last couple years. This near miss made me realize that I don't want to put my parents in the position of having to bury their only remaining child. I guess it made me re-think my priorities and what I consider is important in life.
yup your done for now, I've been there before had a close call gave it up for a long time while the kids were young. Got back at it and had a guy turn left in front of me hurt my left leg pretty baddly but actually kept riding soon as the insurance replaced my bike 2 weeks later. That was in 06 and have many memorable trips since. So take some time off and see how you feel in a few years. Good luck with selling the bike $14k should move it.
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