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Like Ultra stated in his reply, no need to use the connector you bought.
In your case get power to the switch (pin 86) directly from the battery and NOT from the low or high beam wiring because you have canbus operated lights!
If you want to use the two sets of lights individually use two switched relays and wire them as shown in the image above.
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