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Not me, the wife. We took a ride up to Helen, GA yesterday to enjoy the weather and have a look around. I've never given a lot of thought about what it takes to be a good passenger before but she made me think. I always give a little lesson to people who have never been on the back of MY bike before, general stuff about leaning, getting on and off, keeping feet on pegs and off pipes,etc.. We both talked about the route we would take but she served as a good navigator by reminding me of the upcoming turns as I tend to blow by them first and have to turn around. She knows not to shift her rear end during a curve, but even on the striaght aways she would tell me when a major body position was needed and give me time to prepare. But here's the big one; leaving Helen we pulled into a gas station for a drink and as we were turning into a parking spot a cager began backing out, and before I could thumb the horn and begin to swerve the wife shouts at the driver, not frantic but with purpose. Thank God the car's brake lights come on and we're able to swerve around and into the parking spot. Off the bike and a few deep breaths later I ask the driver why she didn't look before backing out and get a deer-in-the-headlights look and a mumble about not seeing us. Anyway, collision avoided and another lesson learned. But my point is that passengers can't be just sightseers, they have to be an active part of the ride and assume some responsibility for their saftey too.
I also take my backseat rider to bike practice. If I need to practice my slow speed manuvering skills, I will benefit from having her on the bike. It also gets her used to doing these manuvers.
My wife also does all of those things and then some but her skills did not come naturally. She has been riding with me since she was 15 years old and that was over 43 years ago. She is probably the main reason I am still around to ride.
I too, have an excellent passenger. We ride 2up almost everywhere we go. Only time she flinches is when I drag the kickstand, Then she'll squeeze the love handles just to let me know I spooked her. Always a great navigator(till I bought a gps). She would read the mapquest direction and tell me when I needed to get ready to turn and I watched out for the cages. I've talked to guys that can't stand to ride their women because they can't set still or don't lean into the curves. If you like to ride 2up and have a good rider, then your lucky. I always thank my wife when we ride for being a good passenger.
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