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Old Feb 11, 2009 | 12:36 PM
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You should have taken your truck! It's easier to fool around in a truck than on a bike during the drive home!
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 12:48 PM
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Man, I'm at a total loss here. What makes anyone think that the passenger seat of the truck would be any different?

My wife and I are secure enough in our relationship that she wouldn't think twice about that situation. I could probably even help out a strange woman along the side of the road, as long as we didn't take a three hour tour, and she wasn't wearing only a bikini.
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 12:58 PM
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so, tell us is Nancy hot and were her " assets" making full contact, and how long did it take you to get her home? My wife would probably forgive me after awhile and then put an *** whupping on the other woman.
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 01:08 PM
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I thought bikers were share and share alike when it came to old ladies?
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 01:10 PM
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Okay, the friend's car broke down. You made the choose to take the bike to pick her up (Beautiful day don't blame you there). I would have expected my husband to do the same thing. He does not need my permission to give a friend in need a ride.

But if it is just for a ride, then SHE needs to ask ME if SHE can ask my husband for a ride. Or my husband needs to clear it with me. Even thou I ride my own, that is my seat and it is a huge liability to give a stranger a ride.

All of my friends know this per-say rule.
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 01:18 PM
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Still read more of this crap posted. It is not disrespectful for me to pick up anyone on my bike for a ride. I have stopped before to help a woman that had a flat tire--had a flat spare and needed to get to work on time. She asked for the ride--she got a ride. I will not feel guilty about that and I will not explain. If it had been a dude and he had said the same thing--I would have given him a ride reluctantly. Reluctant because if anyone seen us it would be some ribbing involved. If a woman ask me to take her for a ride and I see no harm in it --then she gets a ride. I haven't slept with most of the women who have been on the back of my bikes. If my girlfriend felt the need to argue that point I would miss her for a little while. I always set boundaries on respect. I am not neutered or owned and I don't feel that any part of my motorcycle is hers. She can get her own. Being divorced for a long time has helped or hurt my prospective in relationships---you can decide. They can be trustful and respectful or they can be over. I don't need the bike to get layed. Life is simple when it is broke down into basics. Not using me for an example but if I was any happier in life it would be all sin.
 

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Old Feb 11, 2009 | 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by oldairboater
Still read more of this crap posted. It is not disrespectful for me to pick up anyone on my bike for a ride. I have stopped before to help a woman that had a flat tire--had a flat spare and needed to get to work on time. She asked for the ride--she got a ride. I will not feel guilty about that and I will not explain. If it had been a dude and he had said the same thing--I would have given him a ride reluctantly. Reluctant because if anyone seen us it would be some ribbing involved. If a woman ask me to take her for a ride and I see no harm in it --then she gets a ride. I haven't slept with most of the women who have been on the back of my bikes. If my girlfriend felt the need to argue that point I would miss her for a little while. I always set boundaries on respect. I am not neutered and I don't feel that any part of my motorcycle is hers. She can get her own. Being divorced for a long time has helped or hurt my prospective in relationships---you can decide. They can be trustful and respectful or they can be over. Life is simple when it is broke down into basics. Not using me for an example but if I was any happier in life it would be all sin.
You are a dying bread. I get called an ******* all the time cause my wife cooks cleans and all I do is pay the bills. I hardly ever ask permission I just either do it or tell her what I am doing. I'm also a huge flirt and my wife knows it but as long as I don't sleep around it's not a problem. No need to be jealous one way or another. We both know where it'll lead and at night we always end in bed together so i guess thats what counts.

But then again I only have a seat so can't really talk too much smack, but really why is that back seat sacred?
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 01:45 PM
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Your toast...... get a lawyer.

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Old Feb 11, 2009 | 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by HarleyGal1200C
Okay, the friend's car broke down. You made the choose to take the bike to pick her up (Beautiful day don't blame you there). I would have expected my husband to do the same thing. He does not need my permission to give a friend in need a ride.

But if it is just for a ride, then SHE needs to ask ME if SHE can ask my husband for a ride. Or my husband needs to clear it with me. Even thou I ride my own, that is my seat and it is a huge liability to give a stranger a ride.

All of my friends know this per-say rule.

Wow - I guess I am one of few women who doesn't "own" her husband. I mean he told his wife about it. I didn't hear him say "Man our hot friend called and she needed a ride because her car broke down. She was in her daisy dukes and that tank top - well I could see it ALL. She rubbed me until I was so stiff. We rode for hours and then we stopped and SHE rode for hours."

He gave her a lift home and told his wife. I am thinking if something went down - he would have never mentioned any of it. But my man has no leash laws. JMHO - Gosh please don't be mad.............
 
Old Feb 11, 2009 | 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by BIK88CHK
Wow - I guess I am one of few women who doesn't "own" her husband. I mean he told his wife about it. I didn't hear him say "Man our hot friend called and she needed a ride because her car broke down. She was in her daisy dukes and that tank top - well I could see it ALL. She rubbed me until I was so stiff. We rode for hours and then we stopped and SHE rode for hours."

He gave her a lift home and told his wife. I am thinking if something went down - he would have never mentioned any of it. But my man has no leash laws. JMHO - Gosh please don't be mad.............
See with a fiery lady like this no need to run around. All about trust to me. But I guess some guys are lucky to be married and some guys are just lucky.
 



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