what if she gave your friend who broke down a ride home on the back of her bike. just sayin
Did I do something wrong.
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Wow - I guess I am one of few women who doesn't "own" her husband. I mean he told his wife about it. I didn't hear him say "Man our hot friend called and she needed a ride because her car broke down. She was in her daisy dukes and that tank top - well I could see it ALL. She rubbed me until I was so stiff. We rode for hours and then we stopped and SHE rode for hours."
He gave her a lift home and told his wife. I am thinking if something went down - he would have never mentioned any of it. But my man has no leash laws. JMHO - Gosh please don't be mad.............
He gave her a lift home and told his wife. I am thinking if something went down - he would have never mentioned any of it. But my man has no leash laws. JMHO - Gosh please don't be mad.............
My husband came home one day and told me about one of the girls in his office asked him for a ride. He told her that she would have to ask me, that is my husband having respect for my feelings. I would have told her sure go for a ride. But that spot behind him is a very intimate spot and also to speak of the liability if the women has never been on the back of a bike. She can make him wreck simply by doing something stupid. Don't want to take that chance.
Not mad, understand your opinion and respect it.
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Always fun to see the reactions when this topic comes up as it does a few times a year. Yes, it is certainly all about trust. Personally though, if I were single and stranded, I would never call a friend's husband first, I would have called my friend first, and then if she sent her husband to get me, fine. That would have been the most respectful way to have handled this situation IMFO.
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I wouldn't care if DH helped a friend on his bike or my bike, ride whomever you want, who cares. But do not take one of MY helmets or I will kick your azz!! Get your own damn spare helmet for this chit!!
Now, we do have a single friend who abuses the kindness of my DH. She's always calling - come fix this, come shoot that snake, come help me with my bike. Get some freaking boyfriends forcryingoutloud!! The DH finally got tired of it, but he's too nice to say no, so I did tell her to go on match.com and get a damn boyfriend or two or seven. No, she's not a dog, she's a beautiful woman.
I've never been the jealous type. In fact I did not find out my ex cheated on me until two years after we were divorced!! Who cares - if I worried about that chit all my life I'd go nuts. People will do what they will do regardless - I trust everyone until they show me I can't then I move on.
Now, we do have a single friend who abuses the kindness of my DH. She's always calling - come fix this, come shoot that snake, come help me with my bike. Get some freaking boyfriends forcryingoutloud!! The DH finally got tired of it, but he's too nice to say no, so I did tell her to go on match.com and get a damn boyfriend or two or seven. No, she's not a dog, she's a beautiful woman.
I've never been the jealous type. In fact I did not find out my ex cheated on me until two years after we were divorced!! Who cares - if I worried about that chit all my life I'd go nuts. People will do what they will do regardless - I trust everyone until they show me I can't then I move on.
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"Did I do something wrong?"
Well, yes and no.
You were chivelrous. You came to the aid of a woman in distress. That makes you a good man.
You made a bad choice in the rescue by taking the scoot. Had you taken the car or truck, this issue would not be an issue.
Whether or not she rides, the back seat belongs to your wife/girlfriend/S.O.. This is generally not up for debate. Some women don't care, as they realize that you know (you BETTER) where you sleep at night & with whom. But, those women are certainly NOT in the majority. Most women are, by nature, jealous and highly territorial of thier mate.
Your intentions, good or ill, are NOT a part of this discussion. It's your actions that matter.
If the situation arises in the future, spend the extra minute or two and call your woman & ASK if she minds. It's the responsible (and SAFE) thing to do.
As a good friend tells me:
"It's good to be the king! As long as the queen is happy, that is..."
Well, yes and no.
You were chivelrous. You came to the aid of a woman in distress. That makes you a good man.
You made a bad choice in the rescue by taking the scoot. Had you taken the car or truck, this issue would not be an issue.
Whether or not she rides, the back seat belongs to your wife/girlfriend/S.O.. This is generally not up for debate. Some women don't care, as they realize that you know (you BETTER) where you sleep at night & with whom. But, those women are certainly NOT in the majority. Most women are, by nature, jealous and highly territorial of thier mate.
Your intentions, good or ill, are NOT a part of this discussion. It's your actions that matter.
If the situation arises in the future, spend the extra minute or two and call your woman & ASK if she minds. It's the responsible (and SAFE) thing to do.
As a good friend tells me:
"It's good to be the king! As long as the queen is happy, that is..."
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Always fun to see the reactions when this topic comes up as it does a few times a year. Yes, it is certainly all about trust. Personally though, if I were single and stranded, I would never call a friend's husband first, I would have called my friend first, and then if she sent her husband to get me, fine. That would have been the most respectful way to have handled this situation IMFO.
Seems to me that a lot of folks in this thread are very good at inventing imaginary slights to get angry about.
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How bout just dating and marrying more secure women? problem solved!
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