this is ridiculous how difficult is to take apart this tiny adapter and replace it with new, I posted video below

 

The link shows it is going to show something by ChristionSchaffer. WTF?

 

my bad I updated the video now

 

Without a closeup of the connector it does look like a multilock type. At the back of it is a flap or door that needs to be released first.

This link is a picture of a housing with the flap open - https://uk.rs-online.com/web/p/wire-...-plugs/3629165

 

I doubt it, there is no door I can see

 

Post a very good in focus closeup of the connector.

I have to add the usual though that all the connectors used on your bike are described in the service manual.

 

I can send you manual for my street bob so you can find it but I cant find it inside

 

so here is manualbut I have no idea what to do..I inserted the pin I just used the regular safety pin and it says to press the housing or something?
the connector is . JAE MX19 4 PIN

 

One thing that can happen is the pin may stop the tab from being lifted. Push the wire in from the back first, lift tab and then pull wire.

 

in this video first connector is correct, but he is working on female one not make like I have problem with
in video he is working on 2 pin not a 4 pin but I guess it is the same principle at 4.30 in the video....but I cant get it out....I tried at least 30 times