Help me get my confidence back
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Road Captain
Joined: Mar 2008
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From: Cincinnati Ohio
Help me get my confidence back
Have ridden for about 7 years now. Was hit while standing still by a car doing 40 mph while I was waiting w/ my turn signal on to turn onto my street. After that, twice I'v had the schraeder valve come out of my front tire while doing 80+ on the highway. Have barely ridden this whole summer, 45 miles at most. Tonight the wife and I are gonna go to la local resturant 5 miles away, we barely get out of our subdivision and my nerves are killing me. Turned around and went home to drop off the bike. 05 FLHT that like a dumb a$$ I sunk way way too much $ into. I've ridden from Cincinnati to Florida, Myrtle Beach etc. Just scared still. Any help?
Tourer
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 446
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From: Nevada
Don't let it get the best of you man. Make a lot of short rides, even around the block if you have to. Get back home, think about how you enjoyed it, and not what could happen. The way I see it, you've paid your dues now, and the rest of your riding should be trouble-free. Think positive.
Extreme HDF Member
Joined: Jun 2010
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From: WI
How many times did you fall off your bicycle as a kid? A few I would imagine. You got back on, right? This is like that. Just have to get back on and try and try again. Take short trips and just keep working up. If it takes all summer, so be it. Take your time. There is no reason to hurry. Good luck.
Cruiser
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 231
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From: Milan, MO.
Just chill out. I can't explain the valve coming out of your wheel but that is very rare I would think and the wheel should be examined. Maybe the valve hole is too large. Somethings way wrong with that situation. As far as the being hit issue, I hope that the person that hit you paid you for pain, loss, and you should have a new bike. I think you've had bad luck. They say the most dangerous time for a bike is the first two years of riding. You are past that.
Road Captain
Joined: Jun 2009
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From: NYC
...twice I'v had the schraeder valve come out of my front tire...
As for jumping back on the horse, it's only something you can do. The more miles you get under your belt in as short a period of time as possible, the more confident you'll become. The reason I say "in as short a period of time as possible" is like comparing it to a pilot with 3,000 flight hours. Did he accumulate that in a relatively short period of time, or is it just the same first hour repeated 3,000 times over a long period.
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Big Kahuna HDF Member
Joined: Feb 2006
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From: USA
I was the same way after being creamed by a drunk driver I quit riding for over 20 years...then in 2005 threw a leg over a Sporty and now I am back to it.
My first ride was about 5 miles and my palms were sweating...but now I am ok with it and ride all day long. But never keep looking for that aholes twin brother. Give yourself time. It will happen.
My first ride was about 5 miles and my palms were sweating...but now I am ok with it and ride all day long. But never keep looking for that aholes twin brother. Give yourself time. It will happen.
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Tourer
Joined: Jun 2009
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From: 'neath a cactus
Best way to get past it is to keep riding, even short distances. As that old saying goes "You got to get back on the horse that bucked you"...
After my last accident I did a lot of riding through my subdivision. After a while I ventured out... and then went a bit farther... and then a bit farther still.
After my last accident I did a lot of riding through my subdivision. After a while I ventured out... and then went a bit farther... and then a bit farther still.